Have you ever looked at a couple that’s about to get engaged or married and thought, “Oh please, no! Don’t do that!” as the glaring red flags of their unhealthy relationships taunt you? According to author and speaker Kris Vollotton, for some couples the phrase love is blind could not be a more real.

Vollotton offers five red flags to consider before marriage:

1. If someone says they love you but they refuse to respect you, they are lying.
2. Never marry someone to fix or change them; it never works!
3. They say love is blind, but the truth is, love is stupid blind!
4. Ladies, however this guy treats his mother is probably how he will treat you when you marry him.
5. Getting pregnant so a guy will stay with you never works!

Click HERE to read the full article originally published by Moral Revolution.