The Law of Diminishing Return

A guy said to his date, ” I don’t make a move on you for four dates.” If that isn’t love, then I don’t know what is. Not every guy is trying to use you, you know.

If you’re with a guy with “Russian hands” and “Roman fingers”, it may be wise to heed these words. Too many young women say they spend the whole night trying to fight the guy off. Many have said “I really like my boyfriend. He might put up with me saying ‘no’ for awhile, but I might lose him if I don’t give in eventually.”

Actually, nothing could be further from the truth. If Jason truly is your “Mr. Wonderful”, he will stick by you because you don’t put out. If he leaves you because you don’t, chances are he has already been with other women. The chances are also high that he would be unfaithful to you even if you did marry him. Building a lasting relationship involves much more than “getting turned on” every time you get together. Mr. Right won’t keep trying to see how much further he can go each date. To really know your partner takes several months, even years. If you skip the meat and potatoes and go straight to the dessert you’ll lose your appetite. Too many people want to live on dessert and the results can have emotional and physical consequences.

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