12 Steps to Bonding
Published by contactus November 25th, 2005 in AbstinenceTHE 12 STEPS TO BONDING
1. Eye to Body – Not a sexual look. Aha-wow! Where have you been? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Eros is blind.
2. Eye to Eye – Always feel when two people are experiencing ‘magic’. They look at each other. Can turn a person around by looking at them. Infatuation, find out what a person is like on stage. Wouldn’t want to marry on this alone, but wouldn’t want to marry without this quality.
3. Voice to Voice – It takes 1,000 hours to really get to know each other (which breaks down to about 42 full days, or 250 four-hour dates).
4. Hand to Hand – This is a social statement, “we’re together.” This is a beginning touch step.
5. Arm to Shoulder – Statement that “we’re together.” Another beginning touch step.
6. Hand to Waist or Arm to Waist – Storing up secrets, asking questions about statements and beliefs.
ANY INTIMATE STEPS OCCURRING BEFORE STEP 7 BRAKS BOND.
7. Mouth to Mouth – Face to Face – Quit talking. Sit across from each other and share secret messages. Most bonds break because of lack of face to face communication.
8. Hand to Head – Denotes absolute trust in a person with the most vulnerable part of the body, our heads. Think about it, who do we allow to touch our heads?
9. Hand to Body – No genital contact. Knowledge of the body. Know little things about their body, a mole, a toe, etc
10. Mouth to Breast – Universally means “I’m dependent on you” (man to woman).
11. Hand to Genital
12. Genital to Genital